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KID WITH A MESSAGE 01
With children I always try and let them self express, no coaching or directing, "just do what ever you want" is my normal line. The same goes for the wardrobe, "surprise me". Only plan on keeping their attention for 5 minutes at a time. This was 1 Nikon SB700 off camera right using my trusted D7000.